addition, the right choice is not a simple Thinks need to self was virgin, but also the mother of his ancestors. These are people Melayu but formerly held strong to cultureMelayu "If you want to marry a child, 'nut' mother's father first." Virgin daughter who became seizure and usually the main choice is the virgin who already khatam Al-Quran, is fluent in reading and adept at reading the newspaper in his song, and have little knowledge and as much about the laws in Islam. So they will be assessed in terms of visual appearance is comely, and some other principle skills such as sewing, embroider and cook. In the traditional view or merisik, after the virgin is selected, usually a representative of the men will come to the house of the virgin. Usually the group will only be accompanied by family expert women for the men. Arrival aims to get to know the acquaintance with the family of the woman next to see his own face and body of the virgin body. Arrivals also aims to ensure equal there lass is already belongs to someone or not. There balance entourage who had only come to see the virgin and bersuai experts familiar with the family without any binding agreement or give the word broken, but there also continues to bind the promise of an agreement to set a chronicle proposal. It all depends on the family of man terbabit. There entourage who came without being told and there is also the first to come after being preached to the women . In fahaman and trust elders, when the arrival of view or merisik was done with a sudden tremble and coincidentally at that time found the young girl taking a shower or wash clothes, so she took a marker of good, namely to show that meeting a soul mate cool. This brings mean if both of them so bound as husband and wife, their life will be happy-and circumstances of their household will be safe muafakat sentiasa. However, if when the entourage arrived, the young girl was cooking, so she took unfavorable address with such kerana, kononnya, bringing hot marker, namely not very good. So also is believed by the old folks used to bahawa Melayu if any in the way the group will go and apply merisik virgin wood have something like a disaster in the middle of the road, specifically something that is considered to action, it is also said to carry a poor marker of mate them. However, for the Malays Modern society now, such beliefs no longer be carried out and focused. In fact, it's possible to say a big sebilangan Melayu society today is less understood and marker addresses that come to them. After the customary view, the delegation will go home. One talks to be held between experts involving the side of the family man's brother and sister and heir nearest to search for words broken about it. They will be talking later in the year to establish appropriate to run a custom hand in marriage and engagement.
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